I was listening to Dave Asprey on the trainer yesterday (god bless podcasts on the trainer), and he had on a lady who studied Positive Psychology -- yes, there is such a thing and you can get a master's in it. If I ever went back to school, I'd honestly consider that. Personally, I think psych is more valuable than an MBA. Who wants to argue that point with me? lol ;) Anyway, it was a great podcast (listen here) and she said something interesting regarding how much we are in control of our emotional state/being happy:
10% is out of our control, i.e. who are parents are, where we're born, the year we're born, etc.
40% is genetics (the set-point theory of happiness) where nature, not nurture, is at play. We were born that way, if you will, i.e. some folks are just more grumpy by nature while others are way more light-hearted happy-go-lucky. The good news is, this is changeable if we try hard enough.
40% of our emotional state is easily IN OUR CONTROL. We are in the driver's seat here and can make a conscious choice to be happy or not. This is huge. Attitude... it really is a choice to some degree. Personally, I know there have been times where I let a bad mood hang over me like a dark cloud or have unhappy thoughts about something, and don't try to fight it. Or there are times where I do fight it in order to be happy instead. It's good to know that it is possible to overcome being unhappy simply by choosing to do so. (She also said "fake it till you make it" works as long as you believe in trying to get happy)
(Btw, yes, the numbers don't add up to 100%, but I re-listened several times and I think she flubbed or failed to mention the final 10%, or I just had trainer brain, haha!)
Interesting stuff, yes?
(An aside: The chick on the podcast also said studies show that money does buy happiness, but only up to an annual income of $66k a year -- apparently that's enough to have the essentials covered and not cause one to overly stress about money -- but beyond that there is not a linear progression of happiness as income goes up, and it's on you to determine further happiness the richer you get. Hm.)
So the point is, there are no excuses: I will make the most of that 40% of being in control, and be happy as much as possible. The good news is, I'm also not pissed off about who my parents are or being born in SoCal in 1985, either, so I think I have that working for 10% of my emotional state, not against it. Genetically? Not sure where I stack up by nature. I know I'm not always the happiest and can dwell on the negative at times (who doesn't), but who knows. I'd have to test. And am kinda curious to do so now.
Enough of that.
Training. I guess you can say I've finally commenced training again even though the official start date back with Lucho is not until this Saturday, Feb. 1 (duh, I have to get my body ready for him kicking my butt!). I did a Beaming cleanse Jan. 13-16, and kept it really mellow those four days, with the intention of that week being a time to really put my body/mind in a solid place before officially stringing together some consistent s/b/r. You can ready about the cleanse I did and my thoughts on cleansing/detoxing here. I got a lot of bikram yoga on that week. Too bad the gains I made are already diminishing with tri training -- s/b/r does not help bikram performance, in case you were wondering haha!
The Friday after finishing the cleanse I literally had one of the best bike rides I can remember in a long time. The watts/speed? Who knows, that's not what I'm talking about. It's all about the feeling, and in this case I was bursting with power, energy and excitement. Since then, nearly every workout is a blast. I feel like a kid again with all this. Ok, so maybe I still don't care for swimming that much, but at least I don't dread it. (That is one area where I will need Lucho to motivate me to get in the pool; not good at doing it on my own.) Tomorrow (Friday) will mark two weeks of consistency with rest, of course, incorporated, but I'm well into the first block of many good ones to come.... I can feel it.
|Day after finishing the Beaming cleanse. This ride is one I won't soon forget. Pit stop, HB.|
Yes, back on Felt.
|Still shot from GoPro video. Perhaps I still got it. #hokalove|
|Riding along with mom, randomly ran into dad and dog who were also|
getting their workout on. Meanwhile, my sister was out running somewhere,
training for the Surf City hlaf-marathon (this weekend!!!).
Warms my heart. That's what happiness is made of.
|MTB selfie! |
Thinking here: Who needs a granny gear anyway?
Btw, throw back jersey -- Clearwater 70.3 Champs
Hm, what else? Bullet points:
-I'm going to Colorado next week (Feb 7-11) and staying with Lucho! Can't wait. We'll be hanging out in and around Boulder and Denver, I'll probably be the DD while Lucho and John explore breweries, I may try to run if I don't die from altitude/cold, and one night we are getting treated to a homemade dinner by Biju Thomas himself -- yes, the chef and mastermind behind the Feed Zone Cookbook (along with Allen Lim of course). Biju is my bro, and I am stoked to get in on his cooking. Gluten or not, I don't care!!!
-I switched to TrainingPeaks and love it for myself and my clients.
-I'm doing more strength training right now, and absolutely LOVE being in the gym especially when I'm training my local clients. I have a really fun group.
|Some of my guys getting their strength on. Have you tried|
knee to elbows? They are rad.
-I personally have some sponsors/affiliates for the 2014 season and will explain more soon!
-I'm going to buy a new triathlon bike frame soon (long story; ask me personally if you want to know the details. But I will say this is a POSITIVE thing).
|A spicy detox green mix.|
|Post 10-miler juice and floor time. Wondering if those|
are abs that I am seeing again?
-Last but not least, my fav picture from the month of January:
|Did I mention we had Summer in January 2014 around here? It was bliss.|
Don't be too jealous though, it's back to cloudy and cold-ish now.
Plus, heck, we NEED rain desperately around here -- summer weather isn't
all unicorn and rainbows.
A blog post filled with over flowing, infectious joy. Be careful, it could be catching! Best of luck to you and your athletes in the 2014 season.ReplyDelete
Thanks Kona Dad!!! :)Delete
Enjoyed the update, see you at the races!ReplyDelete
I'll see YOU at IMC, eh?! ;)Delete
Wait!!! Will we get to cheer in Whistler together?!? I'm going to be there... will YOU?!?ReplyDelete